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We’re officially entering entertaining season—graduations, backyard hangs, family visits, out-of-towners, and those warm spring/summer evenings that practically beg for spontaneous dinners. But if the idea of last-minute hosting (or just hosting in general) makes you panic, this one’s for you.
Here’s how I prep once so I can say “come over!” without a second thought.
1. Stock a non-perishable entertaining shelf Think pantry, cupboard, or basket. I love perusing the aisles at Eataly, Cost Plus World Market, and gourmet shops when I have time and stocking up on goodies for a “rainy” day. These are the MVPs that won’t go bad and make it easy to pull something together:
Good olives (like Castelvetrano or marinated mixes)
Marcona almonds or pistachios
Tinned fish (sardines, anchovies, or fancy tuna in oil) I think code PAMELASALZMAN gets you 10% off Fishwife
Crackers (Rustic Bakery, Ines Rosales )
Jarred artichoke hearts or roasted red peppers
Dried fruit (apricots, figs, or Medjool dates)
Sparkling water and tonic, favorite wines and mixers, or mocktail mixer (like Brez)
Don’t forget cocktail napkins, votives/candles, propane for the grill
2. Keep a few frozen favorites These come to the rescue for no-stress apps or simple mains:
Puff pastry or phyllo dough (hello, tarts or pinwheels)
Frozen shrimp
Pizza dough ( I buy from Eataly and freeze)
Mini meatballs or empanadas
Sliced sourdough or baguette (my Wildgrain breads, biscuits and cookies come in so handy)
3. Create your 3 go-to menus Have three really simple (or not simple, but ones you can mange without stress) menus in your back pocket, including one that’s gluten-free, vegetarian, or no-cook. For example:
Menu 1: Aperitivo Hour/Happy Hour (No-Cook)
Cheese board with fruit, nuts, olives, crackers
Open a bottle of chilled rosé, or pre-mix a batch of Negronis, or serve a mocktail with citrus & mint
Menu 2: Alfresco Dinner (20 Minutes of Effort)
Grilled salmon or store-bought rotisserie chicken
Big salad with little gems, shaved fennel, and mustard vinaigrette
Orzo with lemon, herbs, and peas
Berries with whipped cream
Menu 3: Pantry Pasta & Impressive Dessert
Pasta with jarred artichokes, olives, capers, and parsley - serve parmesan on the side
Green salad with white beans and tomatoes and basil
A fruit crisp (I keep a batch of crisp topping in the freezer for quick desserts) or my Lemon Olive Oil Cake from Quicker Than Quick which is on sale right now (make ahead and freeze!)
4. Set the mood with zero stress A few small touches make it feel intentional:
Votive candles or string lights
Cloth napkins and mismatched plates
A Spotify playlist you love (French cafe, Bossa nova, or Yacht Rock always work)
5. Keep an emergency gift drawer If you’re going to someone else’s gathering, be ready with:
Small-batch jam or honey (I buy from Gjelina in Venice, CA)
Artisan olive oil (there are too many to mention!)
Luxe hand soap or tea towels
A handwritten card
The goal isn’t perfection—it’s presence. I know how to cook a lot of complicated recipes, but that’s not how I want to spend my time. Not one of my friends has ever seemed disappointed that I didn’t spend 3 days cooking for a dinner party. In fact, sometimes the most memorable evenings come from a thrown-together table and a relaxed host who actually enjoys herself.
Here’s to saying yes, with less stress!
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